Through this journey of living in SC since graduating college has taught me a lot of things. Currently, I am having to work whatever job I can find while Kindel is finishing school down here. Once she graduates, we can open ourselves up to moving and finding opportunity elsewhere. But for now, I am working whatever job will pay the bills so that Kindel can finish her education.
Here’s what I’ve learned from working some not-so-good jobs. I will no longer allow myself to be defined by what I do to get a paycheck. I will not be defined by where I clock in or who signs my checks.
I will be defined by what I do for free. What I do by choice. What I do in my free time.
I will be defined by who I love, not who I work for. How I serve people in my own time, not what I do for people on company time.
I will no longer be defined by how much I make each paycheck, but instead by how much I invest in each person in my life.
I will be defined by how much I gave of myself off the clock, not how much I earned on the clock.
I will not be defined by how I pay the bills. I will be defined by how I live as a servant in the meantime.
I will not be defined by titles, positions, job descriptions, credentials, district appointment, licensing, or the lack thereof. I will be defined by love, mercy, grace, generosity, and servanthood. I will strive to be the latter, not the former.